So...My grandmother (only grandparent I have left) is on her death bed. My dad is flying to Toronto (yeah, that's right..he's a Canadian...what are you gonna do about it???) to be with her. But I was really disgruntled with his attitude this morning when went there, it was more of a "Why is my mother such a pain in the ass" attitude rather than having a "wow, I should really go be with my mom while she's dying" one, Also he was still wondering if he should EVEN go to Toronto...Jesus man. Even though I'm not really close to her I wish I could be there seeing how I'll probably be the only one who even shows the slightest amount of compassion.